Once you go black

“Once you go black, you never go back”

That’s a famous saying, isn’t it. And it’s an annoying saying for some men. Yeah, some men find that saying annoying.

So one day a movement started where some men started to talk about this and about how to practically disprove this saying, so it would go out of fashion.

One guy started telling a story that his girlfriend had cheated in him with a black guy, but he had forgiven her and they had sex after that. So there is the proof, he said. Some of the others were like “proof? what proof?”

“Cool story bro” someone wrote. Obviously, the idea was “pics or it didn’t happen”

This event made a few guys come out and tell their stories, which they DID have pics of.

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Here is a photo of my girlfriend giving a blowjob to one of our friends. We don’t consider just a blowjob cheating. Anyway, we had sex later that very same night.

Other guys supplemented with their own similar stories.

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We have a similar rule, where it doesn’t count as cheating if you’re wearing a condom. It goes both ways. For us it’s a health issue.

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That’s so funny about the condom, we have the same rule. Here is my wife with one of her lovers in our living room.

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From here the discussions went back and forth. Some people talked about critical mass and that is where the conversation ended. If it just happened once or twice or with people with special rules or kinks, then it didn’t really count.

They would have to get some fresh experiments to prove that the idiom “Once you go black, you never go back” wasn’t true. So people started encouraging men who had not yet considered to share their wife or girlfriend to do so, to prove that this was not something that applied to normal people.

Some guys said they’d be up for it but didn’t know how to start. Some phone numbers were exchanged of some known black guys who might be up for this game and so a few people started doing this experiment, trying to convince their wives to engage.

Soon after a guy said he’d convinced his otherwise reluctant wife to give a black man a blowjob, but she did go back to him after that, so he felt he had proven his point.

However, many guys replied that a blowjob is not enough. It needs to be vaginal penetration, as one nerd phrased it.

Several other guys had success with this approach and were able convince their wives and girlfriends to “give it a try” and they had a black guy visiting them to fuck her to check if she would be ‘go back’ after that.

Someone took multiple photos and told what happened. “Yeah, so I invited the guy there and my girlfriend was quite eager – they ended up fucking and he even came in her.”

And the guy continued telling what happened after. “Then she started dating him after that and never really went back to me after that. She is dating another black guy now, is last I heard”.

The guy was of course sorry that he had to tell that story, but he knew people would want to know the truth.

People replied that it seemed that girlfriend had already been into black guys from the get-go, so it didn’t really count and others agreed too. So they were still not sure exactly how they could prove anything.

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What if they didn’t know, someone suggested. He had arranged for some kinky sex with this wife and she was tied up and blindfolded. He had then arranged for a black guy to come and fuck her without her knowledge. Afterwards she was none-the-wiser and they went on with their relationship as usual.

Others applauded his idea and encouraged others to follow his example to increase the sample size.

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I followed your idea and it went great, but our relationship did end shortly after and I haven’t heard from her since, so not sure what happened there.

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After that the ‘well’ dried up and no one else attempted this. People agreed that this was not sufficient to say one way or the other whether it was any kind of proof that “once you go black, you never go back”.

People went back to simply requesting more samples to try to work out a pattern. Someone shared that he had introduced his wife to two friends who had started taking liberties with her. And he hadn’t stopped them and neither had she, so they ended up fucking her.

He went on to tell that she had been angry about him not stopping it but he said that she could have stopped it herself if she wanted to. They broke up after that but people were not sure why. Perhaps this was not because of any black cock, but simply because of poor communication.

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One of my girlfriends friends is black. And one day he was visiting us in our house. I left for golf, but forgot my clubs and when I came home I found her like this.

We broke up after this but I think it was just because she cheated on me, and not in particular because of it being a black man.

People agreed with that assessment.

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My girlfriend and I had a threesome one evening. I never saw her again after that evening. I am not sure why I never saw her again. She ghosted me. So not sure if this adds anything to this discussion.

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I had an opportunity to do an experiment one time after a party when my wife had passed out. I offered a guy to fuck her and that went really well. Even so, she didn’t change her behaviour and we are still together.

Others replied that it was an interesting experiment. Probably if the “Once you go black, you never go back” thing is even a thing, then this indicates that it’s probably at least a semi conscious thing and not an subconscious thing completely.

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We like to play some kinky games and I like to some times take them a bit further than what we planned initially to make it more fun. For example, I like to invite more people to the party. We are still together.

People replied what they had said to others in similar stories, that “perverts be perverts” and it doesn’t really apply to the general population.

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One guy told that he had listened to the subconscious thing and had played out an experiment of his own. While his wife was sleeping, he tied her up and blindfolded her. Then he woke her up and had some guys have sex with her. That way, he argued, she wasn’t doing it because she was a pervert and she wasn’t doing it unconsciously either, so it should be a good test.

He went on to tell that their relationship ended shortly after. People replied that it might have been because he had tied up and had his wife raped by strangers. Maybe that’s why their relationship ended. Most people agreed and said the experiment had no merit.

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A guy explained that he had convinced his girlfriend to make some quick money by making an erotic movie with this black guy. She had been fully agreeing to it because they really needed the money. However, after this day, they broke up and she is now dating a black guy.

The guy argued that this was a typical situation that showed probably there was something true about “once you go black, you never go back”.